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Laura's avatar

Hello everyone, I don't like giving updates like this, but since you are all aware of what's taking place, it's only fair I let you know. The outcome of the EEG today was not good and Ezra has been diagnosed with epileptic encephalitus. The outcomes of this can vary depending on the underlying cause, but needless to say, this is not good news. I am sick with worry. We're having another EEG tomorrow and I'm praying it looks better. The worst thing now is the not knowing.

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The Revolution Continues's avatar

Please, don't worry. Your readers will still be here whenever you feel up to writing again. Now is the time to be with your baby boy and find out what you can do to help him. As a mom who has been in the hospital with her little ones, I know just how stressful it can be, the not knowing. Your attention should be focused on Ezra. No need to apologize for taking time off. God bless you and your family. Love, Cindy

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Shani's avatar

Thinking of you! I know one family who experienced this and it was rough but the child is ok!

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Laura's avatar

That's reassuring to hear because all I have is Google and all I'm seeing are horror stories. Do you mind me asking, was the child born with this illness and how were they prior to diagnosis? I ask because Ezra was having seizures from birth, but we couldn't get doctors to listen. He is behind on his development and has related issues with acid reflux that I think is related. We're struggling to get any sense out of the doctors.

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The Voice Of Reason's avatar

I know of an excellent doctor who will listen to your concerns and whose approach could prove most helpful to your child. My own son is five, and it was about his health we last spoke. If you send me a direct message I will be happy to share his website and contact information with you.

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Michael Rawlins's avatar

Laura, they can work miracles these days. I'll prayer for Ezra. Ask your readers to prayer for him as well. When so many people prayer for the same outcome, it usually happens.

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Judy Demers's avatar

I have been praying! ❤️

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Shani's avatar

The family I knew were from Norway on a visiting academic thing to the US. The baby (who was beautiful) was behind and needed all kinds of therapy but she was catching up- so much so that they were able to take the semester abroad. Obviously you are going to be sick with worry-but you CAN do this!

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Rich Slutzky's avatar

Oh god I’m so sorry to hear about your little one, I hope you’re coping okay and have people to keep you comfortable and calm. Sending all the love and hopes and prayers I can manage, and I pray their situation improves quickly. ❤️

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Camille Sheppard's avatar

I'll be praying for you and your baby. From one mama to another...

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HazbeanZ's avatar

Hi Laura, My son is an ICU nurse. He gave me a link to a medical paper on the condition. He's going to send me something in “English” that he's happy to share with you. I can send it privately if you wish.

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William Bowles's avatar

Sorry to hear that Laura. Is it treatable? I hope so.

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AOC11's avatar

So very sorry to hear this ! I can’t even begin to imagine how difficult this much be for you. May Allah shower Ezra and you with countless health my blessings . Will keep you all in my prayers .

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Marc Montgomery's avatar

Our Hearts and Prayers are with You

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DILLIGAF?IDO's avatar

Laura, my absolute sympathy for you and your family. As a parent of a disabled child (now adult), I really understand the absolute turmoil you must both be in right now. My son also had seizures so I can understand your distress. May I recommend you look beyond the NHS? There has been a great leap in the understanding of treatment of these forms of epilepsy with CBD oil - it sounds out there but I really recommend you speak to one of the many legal and professional clinics in the UK? I can recommend Mamedica but there are many others. https://mamedica.co.uk/ Nothing will be prescribed without a proper medical examination by an appropriate specialist. They are worth a listen.

This might help: https://www.myepilepsyteam.com/resources/how-is-cbd-used-to-treat-severe-epilepsy

Sending you my very best wishes.

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Granny Pat's avatar

Concentrate on your baby now and worry about the rest another time. The people who follow you are the kind who put people first so no one is going to abandon you or your column because you need time off. Hugs to you and your little one.

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Diane Fraser-Bell's avatar

❤️

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Sacha's avatar

So sorry,😔hoping all goes well💕

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MKHC's avatar

Hugs! Repeat.

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Kayode Bello's avatar

Remain strong. It will all turn out well, masha Allah

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Lisa's avatar

I have no useful knowledge to share. All I can share is love & hope. So I'm sending you a boat-load of those. ❤️❤️❤️

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Liam Sharp's avatar

Family always comes first. Xox

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Markker's avatar

My thoughts, exactly. Best wishes to Laura and family.

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Weston Parker's avatar

Exactly.

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Theano's avatar

Holding you all in my thoughts. Much love and here's hoping for the best outcome xx

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David White's avatar

Good luck and hope the little one is ok. We’ve got our fingers crossed for you!

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Marple's avatar

I’m very sorry to read this - I hope your child makes a full and swift recovery.

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Cris Haldenby's avatar

So sorry to hear that, I hope everything turns out ok, Take time for you first before here, we can all wait.

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Scott McCarroll's avatar

Your distraction is entirely understandable and whilst your totally impartial view of the world has been missed, some things are much more important on a personal level. Please be assured of my best wishes x

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Elaine Beck's avatar

Oh my word, you poor thing- such a worry for you with little one being so young.

Please take care of yourself. You are doing precious as is your little one.

Sending big big hugs and hope the doctors will sort the issue out quickly for you both. 🤗🤗🤗

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JT's avatar

Fingers crossed!

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Adrian Widdowson's avatar

Hoping all will be well xx

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Ecoconomist2100's avatar

Best wishes for Ezra

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Adrian Widdowson's avatar

Hoping all will be well xx

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Jen Murray's avatar

Very sorry to hear that. Hope you get a positive answer soon.

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MKHC's avatar

Big hugs, Mummy Laura!

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Jess's avatar

So sorry to read this!! My nephew was diagnosed with infantile spasms at a similar age, it was quite a battle for his parents to get him the right diagnosis and treatment and he was very unwell for a while, but he is now an extremely robust 6 year old who never stops running around, is doing well at school, and can tell you who scored every Arsenal goal this season and on which foot. Hope your boy has very similar outcomes!

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Martin Cloutier's avatar

Take care of your baby and yourself. My thoughts are with you both. x

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